When I was 12 years old, I had to live with my grandparents because my parents were so busy that they couldn't take care of me very well. I couldn't imagine why did two consecutive generations have such a big difference between their lives and personality? My grandpa used to be strict with me and say " You should go to bed early and don't eat fast food in school." Then I ignored whatever they told me. In addition, I didn't think a good family relationship was more important than any other relationships. However, I changed my mind due to one experience I had about my grandpa and I.
In my third year secondary school (age 15), I was in an ill temper and easy to angry with classmates, friends, and especially my grandparents. Consequently, many friends kept away from me. At home I had no efficient conversation with my grandparents, I only stayed in my room to watch TV, play computer games and chat online with strangers. Without a doubt, my family relationship got worse and worse! Although my grandparents were very sad, they still took good care of me. For instance, during meals they tried to chat with me in positive attitude, told me educated anecdotes and cooked various nutrition food for me. Furthermore, only my grandparents could endure my bad temper and impoliteness. But, I hadn't realized family members were so important until my grandpa suddenly died! He was seriously ill and didn't tell me which made me feel guilty. I know now that he worried about impacting on my studying and emotion.
Not only did I realized my issue but I tried to fix my mistakes so i can improve my relationship with my grandma. For example, chatting with her, walking in park, watching TV and helping her do housework. Equally important, I got good scores in my final test and went to the best high school thanks to my grandpa's eagerness to educate me daily. On the whole, a good family relationship is important to me now as I grow older, we should cherish family time as a result of life is short and sometimes is unpredictable. In short, I love my family.
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